Strategies for Encouraging Compliance in Children


Non-compliance is a common behavioural issue where children refuse to follow instructions or complete tasks. Addressing this behaviour effectively can lead to a more cooperative and harmonious environment at home and school.

What is Non-Compliance? 

Non-compliance is any instance where a child deliberately refuses to follow instructions or complete a required task.

Causes of Non-Compliance

  • Desire for Independence: Children often assert their autonomy by refusing to comply.

  • Attention Seeking: Non-compliance can be a way to gain attention from adults.

  • Avoidance: Some children refuse tasks to avoid something they find unpleasant or challenging.

  • Lack of Understanding: The child may not understand what is being asked of them.

Examples of Non-Compliance

  • Refusing to clean up toys when asked

  • Ignoring instructions to transition from one activity to another

  • Deliberately doing the opposite of what is requested

Strategies for Encouraging Compliance

  • Clear Instructions: Give clear, concise, and age-appropriate instructions.

  • Positive Reinforcement: Reward compliance with praise, stickers, or other incentives.

  • Consistency: Be consistent with rules and expectations.

  • Modelling: Demonstrate the behaviour you expect from your child.

  • Offer Choices: Giving children choices can make them feel more in control and willing to comply.

  • Set Consequences: Ensure there are clear and consistent consequences for non-compliance.

Encouraging compliance in children requires patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. We can foster a more cooperative and positive environment by understanding the reasons behind non-compliance and implementing effective strategies.



Written By: Ben Dowton

With over 5 years of experience, Ben Dowton has worked extensively with individuals of all ages who have complex behavioural needs.

He is highly skilled in creating and implementing positive behaviour support plans that promote individual growth and development while also reducing challenging behaviours. Ben is passionate about providing person-centred care and ensuring that each individual's unique needs are met with empathy and respect.

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